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Written at Saturday, May 03, 2008 | back to top

There's been much discussion about family issues in the news these days. The Austrian father who kept his daughter in his basement and fathered 7 chilidren with her was most likely the most talkabout piece of news lately. Incest. Tsk tsk. The Australian woman who had a child with her father and claimed that they are truly in love. Sometimes I feel like going into these people's minds and figure out what they were thinking. When you turn to look at your parents or siblings, what do you see? I see family. The only male figure in my family is my dad. I really cannot see him as anything else but a father figure. How the hell can someone fall in love with their dad? Someone who is way too old, someone who you respect and look upon, someone who you cannot reveal dark secrets to and someone who cannot giggle along with you over childish jokes. How the hell do you build the sparks?

Maybe an elder brother has a higher possibility. But then, I dont know. I dont have a brother. That somehow reminds me of the Japanese anime in which the elder twin brother fell in love with his younger twin sister. Yeah, Matsumoto Jun did a movie on it. I couldnt watch it. Imagine him falling head over heels over his younger sister. Seriously, those people who have an elder brother (or younger...... ), will you ever fall for him? Why not? (If yes, I also wanna know why.)

How bout guys with younger sisters (or again, elder sisters also can......)? Why? Is it true that guys tend to fall for their younger sis when they're younger? It's like a passing phase or something?

Enough about incest.

Polygamy marriages is the "in" topic these days too. Will you agree to a polygamy marriage? I'm sure most guys will say yes. They have nothing to lose with more than one wife at home right. Other than dealing with the occasional arguments and catfights, they have more than one woman to look at. I wouldnt say the same about the women though. Imagine sharing your husband with another woman, or maybe more than just one. However, I can understand why some women choose to accept polygamy marriages. IF (that's a very big if) all the wives are understanding and willing to compromise and accomodate, there will be harmony. The wives may even start treating one another like sisters, drawing the family closer together. But this dont happen most of the time, isnt it? Jealousy. Possessiveness. Which woman in the world does not possess this? Imagine your husband hugging another woman infront of you and still have the cheek to smile at you. I'll punch the both of them and dig their eyeballs out.

I dont agree on legalising polygamy marriages. It'll definitely bring about a lot of social problems. However just like gay and lesbian marriages, I'm not against them. It's their choice. If their comfortable about it, go ahead. I will not discriminate. Just dont start on the preaching and thinking of swaying me towards your choice. I wont bulge.